Becoming New Without a Guide: The Importance of Community

I went into isolation on purpose.

Not because I had no one--but because I needed God more than I needed people. I was tired of who I used to be, and I knew if anything was going to change, it had to be Him who did it.

And He did.

That big decision led to the relationships that I once had... being dismantled. I went into isolation unexpectedly--no warning and no explanation. I was going through really deep and dark battles within myself; I needed real saving and no one around me, including myself, had the ability or power to do that. So, I made the conscious decision to quiet the noise and experience God in that season.

But what I didn't expect, was coming out of that season and realizing I didn't know how to be the new version of me. I had changed--but I didn't have guidance. I had grown--but I didn't have community. I knew God--but I didn't yet know how to walk with Him around others.

It was lonely. It was scary. It was uncomfortable.

But I was reminded of God's Word... "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." --John 1:9

It encouraged me to get past my fear of connecting with people and going into unfamiliar spaces--while also reminding me that I'm never alone. He is right there with me every step of the way.

Currently, I am still in the space of finding my way as a new Christian--I don't have anyone modeling that lifestyle in front of me nor did I grow up around godly examples. And that comes with a little anxiety, if I can be honest; because I want to make sure that I am representing God in an amazing way.

That was a big thing for me once I came out of isolation... represent God in the best way possible. I just needed to find the perfect community to connect with and He led me to the church family I have now. I am a part of a family that stretch me and challenge me to become a bold and obedient woman in Christ, they are continuously bringing us together to become more knowledgeable of God's Word and to know the expectations He has for us who are submitted unto Him.

It is so important to find community as a new believer in Christ after isolation, because the enemy hates us the moment we give our lives to Christ, and the warfare becomes even more intense. During that time, you will need your brothers/sisters in Christ to come into agreement with you before God to pray against the enemy's attacks. Also, having community allows you to fellowship with other believers who's after God's heart, strengthens your faith, gives you accountability partners, and increases your knowledge of God's Word.

I didn't have community for an entire year after giving God my yes. I only had God, my bible, faith-based books, and faith-based podcasts during that season. I told myself that I wouldn't come out of that intimate season until He said so... and then He said it was time.

If you or someone you know is coming out of isolation or has been out of isolation for some time and don't know what to do next. I encourage you to Seek God first for direction and let Him lead you to where he needs you to be in that season.

I hope this has blessed you. :)